Hey Friend!
Want to wear that amazing statement piece but you don’t know how to pull it off?
Want to break out of your norm (a little bit), and wear more, fun, statement pieces that you but you're not sure how to actually make your whole outfit ensemble feel right?
Where To Start:
Slightly stretch your idea of what’s “normal” for you.
If you want to wear things you consider to be bold, or “out there,” but you don’t dare because your comfort zone is... well...comfy, start by taking a baby risk.
It doesn't require any risk to wear what you've always worn so this will require a tiny bit of intention.
But if you feel like you’re living a mundane, gray, life when it comes to your wardrobe and you wanna feel vibrant and bold and in-charge, and certain that you look great, I recommend you start with baby steps!
Stretch Your Imagination:
Just a little bit! Be open to mixing things together that in the past you didn’t think would “go together.”
Every day for one week, wear something 10% out of your comfort zone.
Check-in with how it feels.
At the end of the day ask yourself, "Did I like this baby risk?"
Can I stretch myself a little more tomorrow?
If you're already feeling hesitant, jewelry is a great place to start.
What’s dusty in your closet?
Maybe you have some killer shoes that make you feel like a badass but you're saving them for “the right occasion.”
My dear... LIFE IS A SPECIAL OCCASION.
Wear your best stuff. Frequently. Wear out those amazing shoes! That’s what they’re there for. If you have it, use it!
Otherwise, they will go to waste just living in your closet, in the dark, collecting dust.
Enjoy feeling good in them!
Stop judging things as "over the top."
And if someone comments on your "daring decision," know that that's just their way of trying to keep you from shining.
Take it as a compliment that you caught their eye.
And then remember that you don't have to adopt their idea of what's "normal" for you.
Indulge in feeing fabulous and expressing yourself with your personal style.
It’ll make you feel more confident in yourself, in your abilities, in your creativity, and in your dreams.
You're changing your opinion of yourself by doing this little exercise.
When you look in the mirror your gonna think, “hey cute shoes!”
And you can think “THANKS I PICKED EM!” Haha!
TIP TAKE AWAY:
Wear something 10% out of your comfort zone to up-level your new normal and get used to wearing your favorite things.
Practice this often and soon enough you'll feel totally in alignment and feel really confident in knowing that you can pull off any look your heart desires.